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Post  SnakeInABox on Fri Jul 06, 2012 6:09 pm

I'm happy for you buddy


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Post  JGH27 on Fri Jul 06, 2012 6:18 pm

Fixed

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Post  SnakeInABox on Fri Jul 06, 2012 6:24 pm

Me too Wink

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Post  Warchamp7 on Fri Jul 06, 2012 11:35 pm

Been hanging out with someone in our circle of friends since Anime North that I was only somewhat acquainted with for the last two years. We've become pretty close the last month and hung out a ton, we're really cuddly when we hang out and stuff. Nothing super intimate though, which is a good thing leading into:

She has a boyfriend, except she's not happy with the relationship and hasn't been for a while. (Also found out she was guilted into it in the first place) He breaks up with her all the time and then apologizes for it later, rinse, repeat, yada yada. A couple weeks ago they went camping and he did it again, and she told him it was the last time. He's also really controlling, doesn't let her text while they're together and kind of watches over her shoulder when she's on the computer at his place. I've also baited the comment out of her that he's a jerk.

She just kinda wants to let things end on their own accord and stuff, Thursday she took her Xbox back from his place, so I think things are slowly getting in to motion for that?

The 'friend zone' topic got brought up the other night and how the timing of us becoming friends was good. She hooked up with our one friend for a couple months at the con two years ago when we met her and a friend of hers. She said it was good we didn't become friends then because I might have friend zoned her because of her dating him. [Point in favour?]

I had gone after her friend at one point (B from now on), and she brought up how B had her reasons for friend zoning me and was being nice about it. I asked if she knew Bs reasons and she misheard "your reasons" (As in, for friend zoning me), and said she had none. [Point in favour?]

So things seem good and I'm just gonna ride it out. No rush, whatever happens happens, etc.

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Post  SurgePox on Sat Jul 07, 2012 1:46 am

I don't want to burst your bubble but if she's let her previous relationship go on while she was unhappy, and hadn't communicated this with her boyfriend or broken it off, you can probably expect a lot of communication problems from her in the future if you pursue a relationship.

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Post  Warchamp7 on Sat Jul 07, 2012 1:21 pm

Yeah like I said, I dunno.

We'll just see what happens.

Like, I'd love to just flat out ask "Hey whats the deal with us" but you can't be forward likea generally. Unless a girl is totally smitten with you, that idea of commitment right up front is scary to them and can usually blow things up

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Post  Perry on Sat Jul 07, 2012 4:42 pm

It's what I do and it always seems to work. As long as you're clear you're not overly affected by the outcome and just willing to let things go along whatever it might be that you two have, it always seems to be okay to be curious how to define it.

Usually bring it up myself in a way of "Y'know, I've been thinking lately and I just couldn't really think of how I'd define our relationship". Then again, ofcourse, people tend to expect such questions and actions from me since they've grown used to me discussing and talking about outright everything.

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Post  Warchamp7 on Sun Jul 08, 2012 11:21 am

Update, she broke up with him.

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Post  TheTJ on Mon Jul 30, 2012 4:21 pm

So, hey, you know that girl I've been trying to work up the courage to ask out for 2 months? Well, found out today she has a boyfriend.

This sucks.

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Post  Doctor Shulk on Mon Jul 30, 2012 4:45 pm

Oh man, that sucks TJ. Sorry to hear that. Sad

I am such a coward about this breakup thing cause I haven't seen him in like...3 weeks now :U Or spoken to him in nearly as long. He hasn't really spoken to me, either. I think the message has gone through.

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Post  JGH27 on Mon Jul 30, 2012 5:39 pm

The Legend Ends, she's back with her ex. Found out while I was in the hospital with a concussion. Fun weekend.

Goodluck War and sorry to hear TJ Sad

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Post  .. on Tue Jul 31, 2012 7:54 am

Still not as bad as me

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Post  Warchamp7 on Tue Jul 31, 2012 1:21 pm

That always sucks TJ, but you can't let it get you down Smile

JGH you just really can't seem to catch a break, you'll have to eventually.


Girl I'm seeing just wants to stay single for a while, but we're really close, as if we were basically dating. We're both not too keen on the idea of the other seeing someone else, but basically agreed that since we're both technically single, the other is welcome to.

I think she's just had so many shitty relationships and is afraid of getting into another one. Just going to have to be patient and continue to show her I'm different.

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Post  Doctor Shulk on Tue Jul 31, 2012 4:20 pm

J, that seriously sucks. Sad Like War said, I hope you catch a break eventually.

Good luck with that, Warchamp, I hope you're not setting yourself up for heartbreak.

I'm happily single again. *does the single ladies dance*

I can't see myself getting in to another relationship for a long time, if only because I don't leave the house and meet people anymore hahaha. :U That, and I'm super picky when it comes to relationships.

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Post  JGH27 on Tue Jul 31, 2012 6:59 pm

I caught a big break, it was my head hitting my sink counter Razz

Dating wise though I don't see any current prospects.

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Post  Doctor Shulk on Tue Jul 31, 2012 7:20 pm

Pffft who needs relationships anyway, we're strong independent black women who don't need no men Razz

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Post  .. on Wed Aug 01, 2012 8:08 am

Welp, to hell with her, I'm done.

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Post  Doctor Shulk on Wed Aug 01, 2012 2:49 pm

Outlaw wrote:Welp, to hell with her, I'm done.

Welp, somehow that's probably a good thing. You'll find someone better, I'm sure.

Or you could be a Strong Independent Black Woman like me! Razz

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Post  .. on Wed Aug 01, 2012 3:03 pm

Pineapple wrote:
Outlaw wrote:Welp, to hell with her, I'm done.

Welp, somehow that's probably a good thing. You'll find someone better, I'm sure.

Or you could be a Strong Independent Black Woman like me! Razz

I would rather it had died out through time, not through anger.

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Post  Doctor Shulk on Wed Aug 01, 2012 3:06 pm

Ooooh. Yeah, that's not so good.

Still, it's probably for the best that it died out by the sounds of it. Anger will pass in time, and while it's not the best way of things ending, it's an ending.

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Post  JGH27 on Wed Aug 01, 2012 9:35 pm

Wait, what happened Outlaw?


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Post  .. on Thu Aug 02, 2012 8:44 am

Shit happened.

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Post  Doctor Shulk on Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:14 am

I made a friend on tumblr! So I thought, then he was all like "omg i wanna bang you so hard come to america and be my girlfriend so we can do the sexy all the time."

Aw yeah, attractin' the weirdos. I managed to scare him off today by calling him out on only talking to me when he's horny.

I need to get out more.

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Post  .. on Wed Sep 19, 2012 9:36 am

Perhaps you should try omegle.

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Post  Doctor Shulk on Wed Sep 19, 2012 3:06 pm

Outlaw wrote:Perhaps you should try omegle.

my what a wonderful idea :U

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