Lonely Hearts Club

Page 2 of 15 Previous  1, 2, 3 ... 8 ... 15  Next

View previous topic View next topic Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  TheTJ on Mon Oct 15, 2012 12:00 am

I'm being kept up at night by the thought that I'm 22 and 1/2 and I've never been on a date or even kissed a girl. I'm fat and meh as far as looks go, anything I like a lot I obsess over (3DS and Doctor Who are notable examples) and The only times I leave my house is to go to work (Where dating options are extremely limited since the girl I like (Who had a boyfriend anyway) quit) and to play DnD where every girl there is already dating someone.

And if I DO meet a girl in passing, even if I strike up a conversation, I never seem to have the guts to ask her for her number or ask her out. In my mind I picture a scenario where she's offended and instantly hates me, or her boyfriend shows up and beats me up 90s high school movie style, or where she just laughs in my face at the mere suggestion. I KNOW for a fact these are all highly unlikely, if she were to turn me down she'd probably be apologetic if anything, but the thought of those possibilities is enough to shut me up.

So I can't get to sleep because unless I grow a pair, or a girl asks me out, I'm...

TheTJ
OMNIPOTENT BRAWLER

Posts : 3527
Join date : 2009-12-24
Age : 26
Location : Behind You!

View user profile

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  barda_ehmos on Mon Oct 15, 2012 1:27 am

I can help you but I need your concentration and informations. :3

You can have a girlfriend without date, i've lived that situation.
As i've said to Snake "All is in the will"


Last edited by barda_ehmos ♏ on Mon Oct 15, 2012 1:37 am; edited 1 time in total

barda_ehmos
Wario's Bodyguard

Posts : 865
Join date : 2010-07-12
Age : 28
Location : on my head... for the moment.

View user profile

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  Doctor Shulk on Mon Oct 15, 2012 1:35 am

Do you know if there are any groups around you that will let you meet people? I mean, you play D&D, that's a start. I guess you've just gotta try and get out more - I know, that sounds silly, but yeah. Gotta go out and try and meet people if you want to try and meet people. Wink

The first thing you've gotta do is be happy in yourself, be happy with who you are. And I guess you've just gotta try and be brave - way easier said than done, yes, but I guess you've just gotta throw caution to the wind and take chances.

Doctor Shulk
OMNIPOTENT BRAWLER

Posts : 5868
Join date : 2009-09-12
Age : 25
Location : Gensokyo

View user profile http://gangreldorf.tumblr.com

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  Ansem on Mon Oct 15, 2012 5:34 am

The being happy with yourself is probably the most important part, and the hardest. It forces you to first take a good look at yourself and diagnose what's 'wrong'. 'Cause there is something wrong, otherwise you wouldn't feel so goddamn unhappy.
Then, you need to make a list, what needs to be changed. Eating habits, exercising, hygiene, wardrobe change perhaps? Anything that can help you get where you want to be. The stuff you need to do is all pretty self-explanatory, you just need to go fucking do stuff. Cause you're not right now, are you?

And yeah, once you're happy, or at least satisfied with who you are, how you look, how you stand in life, go out and meet people, and show the world what an awesome guy you are, and how enriched their lives will be once they get to know you.


In other news, i got blue balled this weekend, god i forgot how much that sucked. Now my head's messed up. I feel like i need to compensate for this shit, go out and obliterate myself this weekend.

Ansem
Mustached Juggernaut

Posts : 1965
Join date : 2009-08-22
Age : 24
Location : At the place with the thing

View user profile

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  .. on Mon Oct 15, 2012 8:28 am

15 Months...

---

Also I am surprised this thread doesn't show up more often. Guess it is because TD isn't in here anymore. Razz

..
OMNIPOTENT BRAWLER

Posts : 3646
Join date : 2009-03-15

View user profile

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  Fedaykin on Mon Oct 15, 2012 8:31 am

Oh Outlaw, you snarky old bastard Razz

Fedaykin
OMNIPOTENT BRAWLER

Posts : 3159
Join date : 2009-04-06
Age : 32
Location : Vienna

View user profile

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  .. on Mon Oct 15, 2012 8:36 am

Fedayking wrote:Oh Outlaw, you snarky old bastard Razz

Thank you, thank you. I'll be here all night every night...

..
OMNIPOTENT BRAWLER

Posts : 3646
Join date : 2009-03-15

View user profile

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  Fedaykin on Mon Oct 15, 2012 8:37 am

Well at least somebody keeps me company here then.

Fedaykin
OMNIPOTENT BRAWLER

Posts : 3159
Join date : 2009-04-06
Age : 32
Location : Vienna

View user profile

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  .. on Mon Oct 15, 2012 8:53 am

It's okay bud. I'm definitely not going anywhere anytime soon.

..
OMNIPOTENT BRAWLER

Posts : 3646
Join date : 2009-03-15

View user profile

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  DarkFalco on Mon Oct 15, 2012 10:48 am

TheTJ wrote:I'm being kept up at night by the thought that I'm 22 and 1/2 and I've never been on a date or even kissed a girl. I'm fat and meh as far as looks go, anything I like a lot I obsess over (3DS and Doctor Who are notable examples) and The only times I leave my house is to go to work (Where dating options are extremely limited since the girl I like (Who had a boyfriend anyway) quit) and to play DnD where every girl there is already dating someone.

And if I DO meet a girl in passing, even if I strike up a conversation, I never seem to have the guts to ask her for her number or ask her out. In my mind I picture a scenario where she's offended and instantly hates me, or her boyfriend shows up and beats me up 90s high school movie style, or where she just laughs in my face at the mere suggestion. I KNOW for a fact these are all highly unlikely, if she were to turn me down she'd probably be apologetic if anything, but the thought of those possibilities is enough to shut me up.

So I can't get to sleep because unless I grow a pair, or a girl asks me out, I'm...

what they were saying, and for some people dating does just happen later, and quite frankly you may be the better for it. It's not until a little later that people really start getting into relationships seriously and taking them seriously. Heck you'll probably get to skip the stupid relationship stuff many people have had to go through. And you're not fat you're fluffy, and believe it or not more than a few women are drawn to that, my guy is himself "fluffy" and my ex was even more so. Also sounds like you need someone to date with similar interests. Is there any gaming groups in your area outside of DnD? Or friends that throw house parties? Just getting out there more helps out a lot. Don't get too down about it TJ, you'll get yourself a girl sooner or later, and i bet she'll be all the more awesome for the wait Smile

DarkFalco
OMNIPOTENT BRAWLER

Posts : 3457
Join date : 2009-07-29
Age : 24
Location : Illinois

View user profile http://www.facebook.com/jessica.ninness?ref=profile

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  Sahrimnir on Mon Oct 15, 2012 1:25 pm

http://divalion.livejournal.com/163615.html

I just linked this on Twitter and FaceBook, but I felt it appropriate to post here too.

I usually think of myself as a nice guy and I think I'm (using the terminology of the post) an actual nice guy rather than a Nice Guy. Though it has made me think of how I've handled rejections in the past. There may have been somewhat less contact afterwards, but it's definitely not that I'm not interested in keeping them as friends (I am); it's just that it tends to feel awkward talking to them afterwards.

Sahrimnir
Bowser's Right Hand

Posts : 1112
Join date : 2009-12-22
Age : 27
Location : Sweden

View user profile

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  Doctor Shulk on Mon Oct 15, 2012 4:03 pm

Fed and Outlaw, don't worry, I'll keep you guys company here for a lonnnnng time. No intention of leaving any time soon. Razz

(Mentally and emotionally, I can't handle relationships. I fall to pieces and freak out and everything goes wrong and it ends faaairly quickly. So yeah, staying single for a long time.)

Doctor Shulk
OMNIPOTENT BRAWLER

Posts : 5868
Join date : 2009-09-12
Age : 25
Location : Gensokyo

View user profile http://gangreldorf.tumblr.com

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  .. on Mon Oct 15, 2012 4:17 pm

I'm playing the find-someone-else-or-fucking-wait-game.

Yay Camilla is here!

..
OMNIPOTENT BRAWLER

Posts : 3646
Join date : 2009-03-15

View user profile

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  DRTJR on Mon Oct 15, 2012 5:32 pm

Unfortunately for me the vast majority of stuff I do out side of collage is a COMPLETE sausage fest. and the few women I do know have been in a stable relationship for 2+ years. and nobody I know hosts parties period. so I have yet to go to a "party" in my life.

DRTJR
OMNIPOTENT BRAWLER

Posts : 3630
Join date : 2009-05-25
Location : Death Mountain

View user profile

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  Sahrimnir on Mon Oct 15, 2012 8:09 pm

Doctor Shemp wrote:Fed and Outlaw, don't worry, I'll keep you guys company here for a lonnnnng time. No intention of leaving any time soon. Razz

(Mentally and emotionally, I can't handle relationships. I fall to pieces and freak out and everything goes wrong and it ends faaairly quickly. So yeah, staying single for a long time.)
I feel ignored...

Sahrimnir
Bowser's Right Hand

Posts : 1112
Join date : 2009-12-22
Age : 27
Location : Sweden

View user profile

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  DRTJR on Mon Oct 15, 2012 10:43 pm

Don't worry Sah I know that feel. I'm used to it.

DRTJR
OMNIPOTENT BRAWLER

Posts : 3630
Join date : 2009-05-25
Location : Death Mountain

View user profile

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  Doctor Shulk on Mon Oct 15, 2012 11:44 pm

It was mostly because Fed and Outlaw were talking about being alone in the club. Razz

Doctor Shulk
OMNIPOTENT BRAWLER

Posts : 5868
Join date : 2009-09-12
Age : 25
Location : Gensokyo

View user profile http://gangreldorf.tumblr.com

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  SurgePox on Sun Dec 09, 2012 4:25 pm

http://www.peroxidecomics.com/escape-from-friend-zone-game/

This reminded me of you guys, which I mean in a nice way since it's actually a kind of fair take on the "friend zone" phenomena (i.e., it isn't a girls fault if she doesn't like you but it's understandably frustrating to be rejected.)

_________________
Your Favorite Deputy.
Brawl FC: 0173-1007-4314
Steamid: surgepox

smashbro wrote:another_smash_brother: Imma love my pokemanz
another_smash_brother: thay pwn bitches
another_smash_brother: thats when they ride on bitches

SurgePox
Guardian of the Kingdom

Posts : 6292
Join date : 2008-10-12
Age : 26
Location : San Diego

View user profile

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  .. on Sun Dec 09, 2012 4:45 pm

SurgePox wrote:(it isn't a girls fault if she doesn't like you but it's understandably frustrating to be rejected.)

This damnit, but I can and will try.

..
OMNIPOTENT BRAWLER

Posts : 3646
Join date : 2009-03-15

View user profile

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  DRTJR on Sun Dec 09, 2012 5:56 pm

This Game is toughly unrealistic. Nobody invites me to parties.

DRTJR
OMNIPOTENT BRAWLER

Posts : 3630
Join date : 2009-05-25
Location : Death Mountain

View user profile

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  Smashy B on Sun Dec 09, 2012 6:22 pm

Played it once...



:/

_________________
Keeper of the keys
llll llll llll llll llll

Steam: smashbro815
3DS/Pokemon X&Y: 1048-8610-9932
"I wish I had a magical spaceship made of yellow ideas that could go in space with like a tiger wearing a purple flower, and everything would be colored happyness:)" - SurgePox
"All Pokemon are just Ditto anyway" - Raya
"Krystal's Ok. But what about Umbreon. Now thats a sexy Pokemon, like a sports car." - Dismal

Smashy B
Guardian of the Kingdom

Posts : 7702
Join date : 2008-09-24
Age : 24
Location : SoCal

View user profile

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  Doctor Shulk on Sun Dec 09, 2012 7:11 pm

I got the ending that says I'm mature and I should go out in the real world.

NO.

*hides under blankets*

There's a guy at work who's kinda attractive and pretty cool but I'm not even sure how to make friends with him, let alone ask if he wants to maybe grab a coffee/drink sometime, hah. Why can't associating with people make as much sense in the real world as it does in games?

Doctor Shulk
OMNIPOTENT BRAWLER

Posts : 5868
Join date : 2009-09-12
Age : 25
Location : Gensokyo

View user profile http://gangreldorf.tumblr.com

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  DRTJR on Sun Dec 09, 2012 7:19 pm

Doctor Shemp wrote:I got the ending that says I'm mature and I should go out in the real world.

NO.

*hides under blankets*

There's a guy at work who's kinda attractive and pretty cool but I'm not even sure how to make friends with him, let alone ask if he wants to maybe grab a coffee/drink sometime, hah. Why can't associating with people make as much sense in the real world as it does in games?
does he have anything at his work station that betrays some kind of interest, if not wait for some kind of traffic jam and talk to him about that. find a common interest and then converse.

You'll know if my advise works if he's been in a stable relationship for an extended period of time.

That is normally how it works for me.

DRTJR
OMNIPOTENT BRAWLER

Posts : 3630
Join date : 2009-05-25
Location : Death Mountain

View user profile

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  .. on Sun Dec 09, 2012 7:20 pm

Simply ask him, "Will you be my rebound ass?"

Guaranteed to work.

..
OMNIPOTENT BRAWLER

Posts : 3646
Join date : 2009-03-15

View user profile

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  Doctor Shulk on Sun Dec 09, 2012 8:05 pm

Haha. We had a long conversation about studying literature when we first met, but we never really get the opportunity to have decent conversation, unfortunately. If I didn't have to drive home, I'd ask if he wanted to grab a beer after work or something, but idk, I don't want to be weird.

Doctor Shulk
OMNIPOTENT BRAWLER

Posts : 5868
Join date : 2009-09-12
Age : 25
Location : Gensokyo

View user profile http://gangreldorf.tumblr.com

Back to top Go down

Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  Sponsored content Today at 9:32 am


Sponsored content


Back to top Go down

Page 2 of 15 Previous  1, 2, 3 ... 8 ... 15  Next

View previous topic View next topic Back to top

- Similar topics

 
Permissions in this forum:
You cannot reply to topics in this forum