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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  SurgePox on Sun Dec 09, 2012 8:13 pm

DRTJR wrote:This Game is toughly unrealistic. Nobody invites me to parties.
Make friends, they don't even have to be your preferred gender. Male friends can invite you to do things and there may be females there! Go to clubs on campus or find groups of mutual interest in your area. I met my current girlfriend through highschool Gay-Straight Alliance.

Also the point of the game is that the friendzone is an imaginary construct and that people either are or are not interested in dating you, and if they aren't, you have no place trying to force or coerce them into feeling different, and it's to everyone's benefit that you move on.

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  DRTJR on Sun Dec 09, 2012 8:33 pm

I have friends, they just don't invite me since I live in the middle of know where and I as of yet can't drive.

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  SurgePox on Sun Dec 09, 2012 8:53 pm

I know this might seem obvious, but relationships (usually) don't happen if you don't leave the house. I don't know your personal living situation but find a way to get out. Public transit, a bike, or a relative who is willing to give you a lift.

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  DRTJR on Sun Dec 09, 2012 9:22 pm

To illustrate how bumfuck nowhere I live, if I be driven to the nearest bus stop at 40 MPH it would take 45 minutes to reach the stop. that's 30 miles to the nearest bus stop. And when I exert my self at all I sweat like a pig. So public transit and bicycles are a no go. So, only my dad is willing to pick me up from my place of residence.

Also I can't get delivery pizza were I live. I have perfectly valid reasons why I have few friends, Geography.

And before we get to the Well why don't you move out question. one word, inheritance.

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  TheTJ on Sun Dec 09, 2012 9:36 pm

Well, the solution is clear then, throw a rave at your house.

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  SurgePox on Sun Dec 09, 2012 9:41 pm

I guess as long as you're willing to let not overcoming that limitation outweigh the benefits of expanding your social network into potential relationships, enjoy the happiness that comes with not being inconvenienced.

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  Doctor Shulk on Sun Dec 09, 2012 11:09 pm

SurgePox wrote:Also the point of the game is that the friendzone is an imaginary construct and that people either are or are not interested in dating you, and if they aren't, you have no place trying to force or coerce them into feeling different, and it's to everyone's benefit that you move on.

This. I've had guys get mad at me for putting them in the 'friendzone', only because I have no interest in dating them. I don't appreciate being treated like I'm some sort of bitch because I don't want to date someone. If guys aren't interested in dating me, I just suck it up and move on.

Although I'm at the point where I don't go out, not because I don't want to, but because my Friday and Saturday nights are usually taken up with work (as is nearly every other day of the week), and if I'm not at work, I just want to chill out. Admittedly, I've been socialising a little more now that I have money. In the sense that I've bought myself clothes and I've hung out with friends at least twice this month. Razz

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  Quaetam on Sun Dec 09, 2012 11:32 pm

The idea of a friendzone is more that it's a situation someone can be put into where the only reason their person of interest won't date them is because they don't want to risk losing the friendship. A lot of people mix this up with girls "just wanting to be friends", which is, as Surge said, just not having interest.

And I second what was said above; if someone doesn't have interest, you move on as best as you can. It's highly difficult to convince someone to be with you if they don't want to, and in some cases, can be very amoral.

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  Doctor Shulk on Mon Dec 10, 2012 7:27 am

It works both ways. Guys 'just want to be friends' sometimes too.

(i mean come on that's the story of my life right there Razz )

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  .. on Mon Dec 10, 2012 8:44 am

TBH I haven't been rejected or friend zoned. So I still got about a year and a half.

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  Perry on Mon Dec 10, 2012 10:29 am

The thing that bugs me the most about people acting like "friendzone" is an actual thing is when they percieve themselves to be everything that the girl/guy wants, and that said guy/girl just doesn't see it yet.
Like those comments where the girl saying she just wants a nice guy that listens to her is a bitch because her best friend listens to her and is interested in her.

It's like being attracted to a person shouldn't matter for females, as long as the guy is nice they ought to throw their panties at them.

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  .. on Mon Dec 10, 2012 11:54 am

The internet just seems to bitch about the "friendzone" way too often.

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  DRTJR on Mon Dec 10, 2012 1:26 pm

No matter how you get rejected, it still hurts. and to apply a common tag to a type that many people know lets people cope and it slows for some amusing jokes.

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  Doctor Shulk on Mon Dec 10, 2012 2:59 pm

DRTJR wrote:No matter how you get rejected, it still hurts. and to apply a common tag to a type that many people know lets people cope and it slows for some amusing jokes.

No, it's not funny when you're a female and you're called a bitch when you're not interested in someone because 'hurr friendzoning'.

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  .. on Mon Dec 10, 2012 3:03 pm

Doctor Shemp wrote:
DRTJR wrote:No matter how you get rejected, it still hurts. and to apply a common tag to a type that many people know lets people cope and it slows for some amusing jokes.

No, it's not funny when you're a female and you're called a bitch when you're not interested in someone because 'hurr friendzoning'.

I don't find it funny either. And I haven't even been friendzoned.

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  SurgePox on Mon Dec 10, 2012 3:30 pm

Doctor Shemp wrote:
DRTJR wrote:No matter how you get rejected, it still hurts. and to apply a common tag to a type that many people know lets people cope and it slows for some amusing jokes.

No, it's not funny when you're a female and you're called a bitch when you're not interested in someone because 'hurr friendzoning'.
I agree, echoing what Perry said as well, friendzone isn't a very funny allegation because it implies you otherwise deserve to date that person and that they are at fault for not letting you.

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  Perry on Mon Dec 10, 2012 3:36 pm

And that they're simply horrible people for not realising it, because that's the way things work.

The whole thing about making jokes about it on the internet lets people cope with it isn't really the way I think people SHOULD cope with it. It only enforces that narcissistic mindset and introduces it to people that hadn't even thought of it that way before. And that at the expense of the people that just want to date people they're attracted to (like everybody else).

If you want to cope with being rejected the game Surge showed shows the best ways of doing such.

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  Weldar on Mon Dec 10, 2012 4:32 pm

Quaetam wrote:The idea of a friendzone is more that it's a situation someone can be put into where the only reason their person of interest won't date them is because they don't want to risk losing the friendship. A lot of people mix this up with girls "just wanting to be friends", which is, as Surge said, just not having interest.

I'd argue the former is kind of just a lack of interest to. That risk is not that big of a barrier to someone actually interested, friends still can and do get together sometimes. Even if they really believe that it could ruin the friendship and don't want to lose it its still basically an excuse their mind is making for not being interested enough to commit to that kind of relationship. And yeah there's nothing wrong with that, you can get along great with someone as a friend but still not be in any way interested in some sort of a relationship, there's a world of difference between the two. You gotta deal with it like any other sort of rejection, getting mad about a friend zone won't help.

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  DRTJR on Mon Dec 10, 2012 4:48 pm

Also If you are Friendzoned then don't be a douche-bag about it and leave. If she doesn't want anything but a friend than be a friend, it might eventually turn out to be something. but I never been on a date. ever. so take my advice with a grain of salt. If I ever leave this club I might have more than theories.

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  SnakeInABox on Mon Dec 10, 2012 4:52 pm

SurgePox wrote:
Doctor Shemp wrote:
DRTJR wrote:No matter how you get rejected, it still hurts. and to apply a common tag to a type that many people know lets people cope and it slows for some amusing jokes.

No, it's not funny when you're a female and you're called a bitch when you're not interested in someone because 'hurr friendzoning'.
I agree, echoing what Perry said as well, friendzone isn't a very funny allegation because it implies you otherwise deserve to date that person and that they are at fault for not letting you.

I don't understand what dictionary you guys are looking Friend-zone up in, but I don't see how it puts the female down? Anyone can get friend-zoned, all it means is that you like someone but they don't like you that way back, they just want to remain friends. It's not something to get really pissy about, its not something to make jokes about, and its not a phrase that puts down the person not getting rejected. getting friend-zoned is just a thing that happens, and it's better than a flat out "No I dont like you and now I dont want to talk to you ever again" rejection.

Also DRTJR, you wont leave this club until you leave your house.

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Post  Doctor Shulk on Mon Dec 10, 2012 4:56 pm

Um how about the "wow she won't date me she is such a frigid bitch" mindset that comes with it.

But yeah, seconded on what Snake said on DRTJR.

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  TD260 on Mon Dec 10, 2012 5:00 pm

"Why can't you seeeeeeee

You belong with meeeeeeeeeee"

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  DRTJR on Mon Dec 10, 2012 5:01 pm

It's not my fault I can't Afford a car, insurance, and gas. Thus I rely on my Dad, to exit this gilded cage, since my mother is a lethargic bum who wouldn't be able to tell her ass from a hole in the ground.

Also as a guy who has been friendzoned innumerable times, it sucks, but the person of interest is not interested in a relationship. That could mean period or just with YOU. but there are other fish in the sea.

I just don't own a boat, tackle, or bait.

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Post  SnakeInABox on Mon Dec 10, 2012 5:02 pm

Doctor Shemp wrote:Um how about the "wow she won't date me she is such a frigid bitch" mindset that comes with it.

But yeah, seconded on what Snake said on DRTJR.

That is a mindset that some people have with it, you are sadly mistaken if you assume that it HAS to come with being friendzoned

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Re: Lonely Hearts Club

Post  .. on Mon Dec 10, 2012 5:05 pm

Hell, I spend most of my time at the gym and sleeping than I do worrying about this shit anymore.

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